
In the early days, everything feels great, which can make it easier to miss the deeper stuff. Like:
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You're getting along well, but not talking about long-term values or goals
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You haven't seen how each other handles stress, conflict or big life changes
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You avoid bringing up deeper needs because it feels "too soon"
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You're not sure where things are headed - or how to ask
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You worry about red flags, but don't want to ruin the vibe
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You feel connected, but also unsure if you're truly aligned
Couples who build emotional intimacy early tend to feel more secure, supported and connected over time. So it is important to have the tools, skills and conversations that make the relationship feel solid when life throws you curveballs (and it will!).
This workbook will help you...
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​Go deeper than surface-level chats
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Feel more emotionally seen and connected
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Learn how you each deal with stress, conflict and emotional needs
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Explore what really matters to you (and if it aligns with your partner)
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Build confidence that you’re growing something safe, healthy, and lasting
What's inside...
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​Know Each Other Deeply: Understand each other on a deeper level
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Communication Check-In: Spot your strengths and potential gaps
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Emotional Safety & Needs: Understand how to support each other
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Values Alignment: Get clear on what you each stand for
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Reflection Prompts: To explore individually and together
If you feel...
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Like things are going well, but you really want to know each other on a deeper level
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Unsure what questions to ask to explore long-term compatibility
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Afraid of losing yourself in the relationship or repeating old patterns
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Curious about your partner’s values, goals, and emotional world
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A little nervous to bring up important stuff - like boundaries, dreams, or the future
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Like you haven’t defined the relationship, and that’s leaving things unclear
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Excited and hopeful, but wondering if you're truly aligned
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Ready to lay down the groundwork for something real, intentional, and lasting
